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Feb 28

Too charming to be true? Very possibly.

  • February 28, 2012

A previous post, “Spot the Psychopath”, talked about Downward Focus coming wrapped up in the shape of a psychopath. These dangerous individuals are not the obvious, grotesque creatures portrayed in the movies, but charming and manipulative – traits that can pass for leadership and are consequently extremely hard to identify.

mask of sanityRecent research by Paul Babiak claims that as many as one in 25 business leaders could be a psychopath. The business environment plays to their strengths, when greed is good and profitmaking the overwhelming priority. One of the features they share with another Downward Focus workplace character, the narcissist, is lack of empathy.

An expert in this area, Sam Vaknin, warns that these people will do anything to preserve their own sense of superiority, are pathological liars, and are “their own confabulation.”

When dealing with a boss you suspect is psychopathic or narcissistic, Vaknin advises:

  • Never disagree or contradict them
  • Never offer them any intimacy
  • Look awed and inspired by whatever attribute matters to them

This is hard advice to swallow, but the narcissist and psychopath are ruthless. If you suspect one of these characters is lurking in your workplace – or elsewhere in your life – trust your gut!

 

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  1. Learning about narcissism at work | Barrier Breakers
    August 17, 2012 at 10:00 ·

    […] prob­lem with this Down­ward Focus syn­drome is that those on the receiv­ing end are usu­ally not aware of the roots of it, and […]

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